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"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

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BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, answers questions that are sent to her via email. These responses to the questions of loved ones of BPD, in this category, give you the opportunity to learn from A.J.'s rich coaching experience on various aspects of what you may be experiencing with your borderline loved one. For those who send in a question that A.J. responds to in this audio series that are for sale will receive the audio response for free. You can send your questions to A.J. at bpdcoachaj@yahoo.ca

In this 40 minute audio, A.J. Mahari, responds to a question asked by a man named Frank who is the husband of a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Frank's main question is: "I am getting the silent treatment more and more often from my BPD wife, I have no idea why, what do I need to do to stop this? What is this silent treatment for? I have no idea what to do?" Frank also asks, "Can people with Borderline Personality Disorder change and how does that factor into what I need to know, or do for myself? This is driving me crazy!"


If you are having difficulty coping with a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder or not sure what you need to do for yourself in the situation or relationship or would benefit from learning tools and skills to cope more effectively and would like to explore that in coaching with A.J. please CLICK HERE

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"