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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

Recovery From a Relationship - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Price: $650.00

When you purchase this coaching package you will save $150. If you were to purchase 10 individual sessions the cost would be $800.00

This 10 session coaching packaage with A.J. Mahari, for anyone who is still learning to cope with and recover from a relationship break-up, or anyone who knows that a relationship needs to be ended and is processing and developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship will help you to get to know yourself better. It will also help you to understand in more aware ways what you have just experienced and what that means going forward in your life.

Relationship recovery coaching with A.J. Mahari will help you to better understand the dynamics of that unfolded in your relationship and at the same time help you to gain increased awareness about the ways that you were investing in relational patterns that were painful and that threaten your sense of self and emotional well-being. A.J. can also help you to identify goals that will provide you with a sense of purpose that will help you embrace your loss and the grief and open you up to what you will benefit from learning more about.

In relationship recovery, coping with the loss and the grief, and learning what you most need to know is key. This is a time to concentrate on yourself and in positive affirming ways that nurture your growth. It is important not to allow your inner-critic to take over and cause you more pain or keep you stuck in feelings of abandonment, shame, and/or unworthiness. A.J. can help you to let go of the "if-only's" and the "what-if's".

Also at issue and explored with many who purchase this coaching package is the self-defeating choices made in getting involved in a relationship or series of relationships that have a common thread/theme/pattern that have continued to bring painful chaos, stress, and anxiety into your life. Learn why you may be looking for love in all the wrong places.

This coaching package will help you:

Learn to observe your inner-critic
Gain more awareness about relationship choices - what keeps blocked from the healthy love you really want
Clarify your own needs
Clarify your expectations
Clarify your relationship needs
Cope effectively with the loss and grief of a relationship break-up
Learn new emotion management skills
Define or re-define your boundaries
Replace ineffective and/or painful ways of relating with healthier more effective here-and-now ways of relating
Learn to implement strategy that supports personal growth and wellness

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

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