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"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Abandonment Resolution

Abandonment Resolution

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute coaching session with A.J. Mahari to discearn the ways that unresolved abandonment is keeping you stuck and is a major obstacle to growth and change and you achieving your goals in your relationships, career, and life generally.

Many people who feel blocked, stuck, and unable to identify and/or achieve their goals and dreams in life have unresolved abandonment issues that profoundly impact their emotional experience in life and that intensify difficulty with loss and/or change.

Do you have difficulty with change? Do you have difficulty moving on after a relationship ends, a friendship changes or ends? Do you continue to think about a job that you used to have and feel stuck there emotionally? Are you experiencing a high-conflict or toxic relationship with a parent (or parents) and find that despite what you need you continue to put aside your own well-being to try to please or meet the demands of your parents? Do you find yourself trying to meet the needs or demands of others just because you "hate" loss and don't want to have to deal with it?

Underlying a lot of emotional blocks in life is unresolved abandonment. A.J. Mahari can help you to understand more about what this means for you in your life and explore with you what you will benefit from learning about yourself and how you can learn to let go, to grieve, and to move forward to identify, embrace, and achieve your goals and dreams in your life.

A.J. will help you learn to identify:

  • What is blocking you
  • What you are focusing on that isn`t helping you move forward
  • The lessons that loss and grief have to teach you
  • Effective ways of coping with your emotions
  • How to nurture and take care of yourself
  • Identify and achieve your goals and dreams
  • Help you to recognize how your here-and-now might be being shaped by your past and how you can change that

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"