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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

Emotional Mastery - An Introduction

Emotional Mastery - An Introduction

Price: $9.99

38 Minutes: An Introduction and Overview
Do you  need to find emotional relief from pain and stress? Are you unhappy? You can find relief!

The truth about dysregulated or unregulated emotion, or mis-managed emotion, is that it leaves people both a slave to their own emotions - reactionary emotionally to others often - and a victim of all that ensues from unmastered emotion. You will benefit from seeking to find relief from out-of-control emotions that often lead you to be your worst enemy. Do you want to find your way to emotional balance and freedom? Are you tired of hurting, being taken advantage of, or being unhappy?


As a life coach, I work with clients, most of whom, to one degree or another have blocks in their emotional understanding and awareness of themselves. Blocks that can be obstacles to change wanted and/or needed. Blocks that hold them back from healthier or happier relationships. And even emotional blocks that can lead to a series of unhealthy or toxic relationships.

Emotions can seem so daunting, can\'t they? They can feel overwhelming. They can feel like too much to feel, handle or cope with even. Your emotions might feel so intense that you have a built up fear about feeling them.

Are you repressing your emotions? Are you engaging in diversion tactics? Are you eating, drinking, taking drugs, taking naps, working way too much, avoiding spending any time alone - doing anything it takes to avoid feeling or being more aware of your emotions? Are you not sure how to deal with those emotions?

Are you anxious or depressed or both? Are you often angry and frustrated? Do you feel that it is important to be right. Do you feel invalidated if you aren\'t agreed with. Do you trust yourself? Do you trust others? What is the state of your relationships?

If you can relate to these questions, then you might be wondering, how could I ever get control of emotions that I am too afraid to feel? How could I possibly become more aware of what would help me to deal with, cope with and learn to master my own emotions?

You might also wonder why you feel as you do or why you act or behave in some of the ways that you do.

For so many people, where there feelings come from, what their feelings actually feel like, seem to just come out of the blue and not be well understood, if understood at all.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"