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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

Emotional Mastery - An Introduction

Emotional Mastery - An Introduction

Price: $9.99

38 Minutes: An Introduction and Overview
Do you  need to find emotional relief from pain and stress? Are you unhappy? You can find relief!

The truth about dysregulated or unregulated emotion, or mis-managed emotion, is that it leaves people both a slave to their own emotions - reactionary emotionally to others often - and a victim of all that ensues from unmastered emotion. You will benefit from seeking to find relief from out-of-control emotions that often lead you to be your worst enemy. Do you want to find your way to emotional balance and freedom? Are you tired of hurting, being taken advantage of, or being unhappy?


As a life coach, I work with clients, most of whom, to one degree or another have blocks in their emotional understanding and awareness of themselves. Blocks that can be obstacles to change wanted and/or needed. Blocks that hold them back from healthier or happier relationships. And even emotional blocks that can lead to a series of unhealthy or toxic relationships.

Emotions can seem so daunting, can\'t they? They can feel overwhelming. They can feel like too much to feel, handle or cope with even. Your emotions might feel so intense that you have a built up fear about feeling them.

Are you repressing your emotions? Are you engaging in diversion tactics? Are you eating, drinking, taking drugs, taking naps, working way too much, avoiding spending any time alone - doing anything it takes to avoid feeling or being more aware of your emotions? Are you not sure how to deal with those emotions?

Are you anxious or depressed or both? Are you often angry and frustrated? Do you feel that it is important to be right. Do you feel invalidated if you aren\'t agreed with. Do you trust yourself? Do you trust others? What is the state of your relationships?

If you can relate to these questions, then you might be wondering, how could I ever get control of emotions that I am too afraid to feel? How could I possibly become more aware of what would help me to deal with, cope with and learn to master my own emotions?

You might also wonder why you feel as you do or why you act or behave in some of the ways that you do.

For so many people, where there feelings come from, what their feelings actually feel like, seem to just come out of the blue and not be well understood, if understood at all.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"