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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

LONELINESS - Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning

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LONELINESS
Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning and its Promise of Life Transformation

© A.J. Mahari October 26, 2006

A.J. Mahari, writes, "At the core of every human heart there is the paradox of the need and longing for connection and the reality of loneliness inter-mixed with the desire for the joy and peace of the solitude of aloneness."

This ebook includes a section on abandonment and the core wound of abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder (how it effects the non-borderline in relation to the borderline), and its impact and effect upon the loneliness experienced by those who were sexually abused.

This ebook is an examination of loneliness - including types of loneliness, causes of loneliness, Holidays and Loneliness, the lessons of loneliness, what to do about the pain of loneliness, how to cope with it. Along with the challenges of loneliness, what they are and why they are, the lessons of loneliness - what does loneliness really mean in our lives? Also explored and examined is the purpose and meaning of loneliness and the promise it offers of life transformation.

This ebook, available now, is 238 pages - 13 chapters all about Loneliness and the life affirming and transforming opportunities it presents us with through the pain and struggles we encounter with it.

PART ONE: THE CHALLENGE OF LONELINESS

Chapter 1: What is Loneliness? -- A definition of Loneliness. An examination of the continuum of Loneliness. What Loneliness isn’t. The 10 Main Ingredients Necessary To Exercise Choice & the The 10 Primary Root Causes Of Loneliness

Chapter 2: Types, Symptoms and Effects of Loneliness --The 3 Main Categories of Loneliness are examined along with 10 central Symptoms of Loneliness and the 7 Major Effects of Loneliness. The value of the challenges of Loneliness. Loneliness is such a teacher of important lessons, if you'll let it be.

Chapter 3: Holidays and Loneliness -- Holidays present difficult and lonely times for many. Why do holidays
seem to make feelings of loneliness worse? What can we do to cope with loneliness during holiday seasons?

PART TWO: ABANDONMENT WOUNDS -- in life generally, and in Borderline Personality Disorder, (BPD) effecting non-borderlines too, and Sexual Abuse.

Chapter 4: Unresolved Abandonment and Chronic Loneliness -- Even for those without formal mental illness or who were not abused in childhood can have abandonment wounds that fuel chronic loneliness.

Chapter 5: Abandonment Wounds and Loneliness in Borderline Personality Disorder -- Abandonment wounds and consistent abandonment fears of those diagnosed with BPD create and perpetuate chronic and intolerable loneliness. Plus the loneliness of the non-BP (ex) partner is explored. You do not have to have a personality disorder or mental illness to have unresolved abandonment issues that are a central part of your loneliness.

Chapter 6: Abandonment Wounds in Loneliness from Sexual Abuse -- For those who have been sexually abused the result is abandonment wounds similar to those in BPD that enliven many of the root causes of loneliness defined in my continuum of loneliness. This continuum of loneliness applies to all of us, not just to people who have been sexually abused.

PART THREE: THE PURPOSE AND MEANING OF LONELINESS

Chapter 7: The Necessity of Loneliness -- Loneliness is necessary because it is the pathway to the soul and the authentic self of each one of us. An examination of how and why Loneliness and its pain are necessary teachers. What is the point of the pain? An examination of the hope of the pain of Loneliness. Loneliness can be a transformative teacher.

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

LONELINESS - Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning is available in the following bundles:

1 - 50 Minute Phone Life Coaching Session and The Ebook "Loneliness"

$89.99

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"