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Testimonials

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder

Price: $16.99

Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder - What Every Loved One Needs to Know
© A.J. Mahari November 2009

"In this in depth ebook, A.J. Mahari masterfully explains how and why those with Borderline Personality Disorder punish others and seek revenge on those closest to them. Mahari gives the loved ones of those with BPD an inside out understanding of punishment and revenge in BPD." -- Joan Van Vork, M.S.W.

“A.J. Mahari’s insight is nothing short of amazing. Only someone who has recovered from BPD - been there and made it back - could explain this most central aspect of BPD the way Mahari does. For that reason she has not only a unique voice but a very wise one that will teach anyone who reads this ebook.” --Ian Vanderlay, Ph.D.

This ebook includes 5 chapters and 161 pages of in depth explanation for loved ones of punishment and revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. In this ebook, along with a tremendous amount of insight and understanding about punishment and revenge manifested by many with BPD Mahari shares her own experience in her recovery of mastering the unmastered talionic impulse at the heart of Bordelrine Personality Disorder.

This ebook also features:

7 Illusions That Guide the Borderline False Self to punish others
The Karpman Drama Triangle and Cycles of BPD punishment
The Child/Victim Archetypes & BPD Punishment and Revenge
20 Foundational Keys of The Talionic Impulse For Revenge in BPD
Freud’s Myth of the Primal Horde as relates to BPD Punishment
The 15 most common elements in Borderline Punishment Cycle
How Borderlines Punish - 7 Common Questions
Why Borderlines Punish - 7 Common Questions

For anyone with Borderline Personality Disorder, this ebook may also be helpful for you. However, you need to know that you can cope well with reading a lot that could be triggering. There is a lot that many with BPD can learn from the insight that A.J. Mahari shares about her own journey from being a person with BPD who had unmastered and unregulated talionic impulses to someone who learned in her recovery that it was much more important to lay down the struggle for power in the face of powerlessness. Mahari also learned, as she talks about in this ebook, that to recover from BPD one has to make a conscious choice to want something - something very precious - way more then they want or need to be or feel right.

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Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder is available in the following bundles:

4 Ebook Bundle for Loved Ones of BPD

$55.00

4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks - Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle

$80.00

Punishment and Revenge in BPD & 1 - 60 Minute Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari

$90.99

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"