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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

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Are you someone with a loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner with Borderline Personality Disorder?

Are you in pain? Do you feel like you are losing yourself or that you have lost yourself? Are you experiencing an increasing amount of emotional pain? Are you angrier? More stressed? These are but a few of the signs that you are losing yourself to the personality-disordered person in your life and that you need healthy change in your life.

A.J. Mahari talks to non borderlines, the loved ones or family members of those with Borderline Personality Disorder about the reality of the duality of their pain. It can be painful to unhook from someone with BPD who isn't getting treatment or perhaps doesn't even admit there is a problem.

Non borderlines need to learn to focus more on themselves and less on the person with BPD in their lives so that they can re-gain lost balance. So that they can gain perspective on what they are experiencing and what it means to them in their lives. How can you know what the answers are for the situation you find yourself in and/or for the stress you are under if you aren't sure what the questions really are?

Loss hurts. Loss invites us to open up to the questions that you have to learn to live so that you can ready yourself for the finding of answers that you need to help you to heal and to recover from a painful relationship.

Many non borderlines - BPD loved ones stay hooked because they are trying to avoid the pain of loss. Mahari talks about the reality that there is something much more painful than that pain of loss. What is that? Do you need to know more?

A.J. Mahari has been there. She knows your pain. She knows the heartache. She speaks from her own experience. She has healed and recovered from her own relationships with people with BPD in her life. She will give you hope and food for thought as to how you can unhook, why you may need to, and what you can do about the why's and the wherefore's of why what has happened in your experience with the person with BPD has happened, what it means, and what you can do about it.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

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