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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

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How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder.


By: A.J. Mahari © 2007
Published by PhoenixRising Publications

In the audio program, "BPD and Abandonment" A.J. Mahari talks about how and why abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder and the reality that it is also the unresolved trauma of the core wound of abandonment that leads those with BPD to be left without a known self and to abandon the very pain that could set them free from BPD. Abandonment is the major core issue that keeps those who are diagnosed and stuck in the active throes of BPD - stuck.

Mahari describes how borderlines can begin to get in touch with this abandoned pain and why it is important to get in touch with it. Reclaiming and facing the abandoned pain of BPD - pain that is the result of having been wounded to the core by the experience and/or perception of abandonment in the first two to three years of life is the path that leads to the road to recovery.

Tracks in this audio program include:

Track 1:
Introduction to the central role of abandonment in BPD - Abandonment both causes and drives BPD.

Track 2:
The Effects of abandonment on those with BPD.

Track 3:
The Abandoned Pain of Abandonment in BPD.

Track 4:
The Borderline False Self - How and why the Core Wound of Abandonment is Central to the Recovery Process

Track 5:
The Abandoned Pain of BPD Is A Choice to Continue to Suffer and What That Means

Track 6:
The Reclamation of Abandoned Pain Is The Road to Recovery from BPD.

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"