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"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

About A.J. Mahari

A.J. MahariLet me introduce myself to those of you who may not know me from my other Websites and the numerous (free) articles, blogs, podcasts, and videos I have made available online for over 15 years now.

My name is A.J. Mahari. I am a 54 year old woman, professional writer, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach. I have written primarily and specifically about Borderline Personality Disorder (from which I have recovered 15 years ago), Asperger's Syndrome (from the adult perspective), as well as Mental Health Issues, Self Help, Sexual Abuse, other forms of abuse, Narcissism, Codependency, Toxic Relationships, Self Improvement and Personal Growth, among other things. I also have have Ebooks and Audio Programs, along with video, and Life Coaching Services on a wider-range of topics of interest to those who are in various stages of identifying and coming to terms with much-needed change. Please see the Mental Health (drop down menu of Self Help Link) and Self Help links in the Top Menu Bar and please check back for many new Ebooks and Audio coming soon.

So much of the journey of life, as does the life coaching process, involves getting to know yourself better. More specifically, getting to know much more about who you really are - who your authentic self is. It is the authentic self in each and every one of us that I believe is a phoenix rising.

I am a Phoenix Rising, an ever-unfolding work in progress, a wayfarer on the road less traveled. I am a student of life. I am a seeker of all that can bring forward a continued and deeper awareness that can enhance the over-all quality of my experience of every evolving and maturing here-and-now moment in the full mindfulness of radical acceptance of all that is.

Learning to mindfully and radically accept what is provides the Phoenix Rising in each of us with the repeated and universally-timed opportunity of evolution that challenges each of us to throw his/her known self into the fire of examination. A fire that allows us to learn, make progress in any recovery we need, and to grow. We then rise out of the ashes of one fire of self at a time to come to understand aspects of our lives that were previously unavailable to our conscious minds because we were too restricted by our protective false selves to acquire this much sought after and longed for insightful awareness. This profoundly important awareness gifts us with new appreciation and understanding. In turn, then, from the ashes of these fires of self, each Phoenix Rising unearths the space to implement new ways of thinking, feeling, and acting in the world.

Coaching really can help you identify, clarify, plan, and achieve your goals. It can help you get unstuck or unblocked. I help my clients to gain a new, much more in depth and insightful perspective on what is blocking them or keeping them stuck and how to identify wanted and needed change and make it happen in their lives through goal-attainment, among other philosophy and methodology.


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Please join me on this most sacred journey won't you? I look forward to the opportunity to join you for part of your un-folding journey in working with you as your Coach and supporting you identifying and accomplishing healing, self improvement, recovery, and your goals and dreams. Read one of my ebooks, listen to one of my audio programs, partake of a self help course, watch a video, or avail yourself of my life coaching services - all of which are designed to aid you on your un-folding journey. This is a journey that is simultaneously universally shared and very individual and personal. It is from this central premise that my ebooks speak to the many layers and intricate nature of self-revelation, self-actualization, and recovery.

No matter what your life circumstance. No matter what your diagnosis or life challenge I hope you will find something I've made available here that will augment your journey with a renewed sense of promise, purpose, passion, and peace.

You can read more about me and my philosophy of life coaching at: Phoenix Rising Life Coaching. You can also visit ajmahari.ca for a complete list of links to all of my web resources.


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"