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"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

86 minutes In this video lecture given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari talks about how she was diagnosed and the way that she encountered stigma and her thoughts and feelings about ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Are you someone with a loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you in pain? Do you feel like you are losing yourself or that you have lost yourself? Are you experiencing an ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Nons Unhooking - Part 2 - Healing and Recovery Loved ones of those with BPD - Non borderlines need to understand what love is and what love isn't and learn to find out why they have chosen to engage an unhealthy ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

A.J. Mahari on Video about Tough Love and BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough love. Mahari widens the perspective on what tough ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD - Loved ones of BPD Part 2 of 2 In part two of her Video Lecture on Tough Love for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari talksa about how and when tough love can be applied in coping with someone with BPD in your life. ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"