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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

86 minutes In this video lecture given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari talks about how she was diagnosed and the way that she encountered stigma and her thoughts and feelings about ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Are you someone with a loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you in pain? Do you feel like you are losing yourself or that you have lost yourself? Are you experiencing an ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Nons Unhooking - Part 2 - Healing and Recovery Loved ones of those with BPD - Non borderlines need to understand what love is and what love isn't and learn to find out why they have chosen to engage an unhealthy ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

A.J. Mahari on Video about Tough Love and BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough love. Mahari widens the perspective on what tough ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD - Loved ones of BPD Part 2 of 2 In part two of her Video Lecture on Tough Love for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari talksa about how and when tough love can be applied in coping with someone with BPD in your life. ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"