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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "BPD and Abandonment" A.J. Mahari talks about how and why abandonment ...

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Are You Stuck With Borderline Personality Disorder?

Are You Stuck With Borderline Personality Disorder?

Are you stuck with Borderline Personality Disorder? Do you feel like or believe that you can't get better? That you won't recover? Do you think BPD is a brain disorder and that means you will always have it? In this audio Life Coach and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, who recovered from ...

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Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

In this audio program, Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners, A.J. Mahari, a woman who has recovered from BPD and who is a life coach, talks to those who are newly diagnosed and searching for more understanding about what Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really is ...

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$12.99

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

In this audio, Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari gives the listener an in depth understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder and the emotional triggers that are so central to having Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari shares some her experience in how understanding ...

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BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

86 minutes A.J. Mahari's video lecture can be purchased as an audio only dowload as well. This lecture was given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Increase your understanding of emotional dysegulation in those with BPD whether you have BPD or are a Non Borderline A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications Emotion regulation is central to recovery from Borderline Personality ...

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Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Borderlines can and need to work toward welcoming in hope one step at a time through mindfulness and radical acceptance. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In this program A.J. Mahari talks about how those with Borderline Personality ...

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From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

An examination of the reality of the false self in BPD and the reality that is healing through connection to one's inner child. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "From False Self To Authentic Self - Getting In ...

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Losing a Therapist - Ask the BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

Losing a Therapist - Ask the BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, answers questions that are sent to her via email. These responses to the questions of people who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), in this category, give you the opportunity to learn from A.J.'s rich life and coaching experience on various ...

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Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

People diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) do not know who they are. They do not have a stable sense of any known self or a stable sense of known identity. There is a profound need to search for the lost authentic Self and for identity. At the center of BPD is ...

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Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Recovery from BPD takes preparation along with committment and taking personal responsibility. Preparing to recover is a process one has to choose. By: A.J. Mahari © January 2008 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications In the audio program, "Preparing ...

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Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder examines the reality that rage often becomes an addiction for those with BPD. In the audio program, "RAGE ADDICTION IN BPD" A.J. Mahari outlines and explains the formidable reality that the rage addiction ...

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Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships. By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"The abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihilating suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Abandoned Pain of BPD"