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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising ...

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Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

In this audio program, Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners, A.J. Mahari, a woman who has recovered from BPD and who is a life coach, talks to those who are newly diagnosed and searching for more understanding about what Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really is ...

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BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

In this audio, Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari gives the listener an in depth understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder and the emotional triggers that are so central to having Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari shares some her experience in how understanding ...

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BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

86 minutes A.J. Mahari's video lecture can be purchased as an audio only dowload as well. This lecture was given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Increase your understanding of emotional dysegulation in those with BPD whether you have BPD or are a Non Borderline A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications Emotion regulation is central to recovery from Borderline Personality ...

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Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Borderlines can and need to work toward welcoming in hope one step at a time through mindfulness and radical acceptance. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In this program A.J. Mahari talks about how those with Borderline Personality ...

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From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

An examination of the reality of the false self in BPD and the reality that is healing through connection to one's inner child. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "From False Self To Authentic Self - Getting In ...

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Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

People diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) do not know who they are. They do not have a stable sense of any known self or a stable sense of known identity. There is a profound need to search for the lost authentic Self and for identity. At the center of BPD is ...

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Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Recovery from BPD takes preparation along with committment and taking personal responsibility. Preparing to recover is a process one has to choose. By: A.J. Mahari © January 2008 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications In the audio program, "Preparing ...

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Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder examines the reality that rage often becomes an addiction for those with BPD. In the audio program, "RAGE ADDICTION IN BPD" A.J. Mahari outlines and explains the formidable reality that the rage addiction ...

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Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships. By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"